Showing posts with label christmas. Show all posts
Showing posts with label christmas. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS

Robert wishes one and all Happy Christmas


Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house
Not a creature was stirring, not even a mouse.
The stockings were hung by the chimney with care,
In hopes that St Nicholas soon would be there.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
While visions of sugar-plums danced in their heads.
And mamma in her ‘kerchief, and I in my cap,
Had just settled our brains for a long winter’s nap.

When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter,
I sprang from the bed to see what was the matter.
Away to the window I flew like a flash,
Tore open the shutters and threw up the sash.

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
Gave the lustre of mid-day to objects below.
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a miniature sleigh, and eight tinny reindeer.

With a little old driver, so lively and quick,
I knew in a moment it must be St Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,
And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name!

"Now Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen!
On, Comet! On, Cupid! on, on Donner and Blitzen!
To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!
Now dash away! Dash away! Dash away all!"

As dry leaves that before the wild hurricane fly,
When they meet with an obstacle, mount to the sky.
So up to the house-top the coursers they flew,
With the sleigh full of Toys, and St Nicholas too.

And then, in a twinkling, I heard on the roof
The prancing and pawing of each little hoof.
As I drew in my head, and was turning around,
Down the chimney St Nicholas came with a bound.

He was dressed all in fur, from his head to his foot,
And his clothes were all tarnished with ashes and soot.
A bundle of Toys he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a peddler, just opening his pack.

His eyes-how they twinkled! his dimples how merry!
His cheeks were like roses, his nose like a cherry!
His droll little mouth was drawn up like a bow,
And the beard of his chin was as white as the snow.

The stump of a pipe he held tight in his teeth,
And the smoke it encircled his head like a wreath.
He had a broad face and a little round belly,
That shook when he laughed, like a bowlful of jelly!

He was chubby and plump, a right jolly old elf,
And I laughed when I saw him, in spite of myself!
A wink of his eye and a twist of his head,
Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread.

He spoke not a word, but went straight to his work,
And filled all the stockings, then turned with a jerk.
And laying his finger aside of his nose,
And giving a nod, up the chimney he rose!

He sprang to his sleigh, to his team gave a whistle,
And away they all flew like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, ‘ere he drove out of sight,
"Happy Christmas to all, and to all a good-night!"


This old geezer has mates all over the world.  Christmas Eve will arrive at different times, but will be greeted by all with the same pleasure.

May the blessings of Christmas find one and all happy and safe.


I am blessed and will be each and every day of the new year.  I am made wealthy by the folks who have been friend to me this year and every year.  Not all Christmases are equal, some have been more joyful that others.  But each Christmas makes me very aware of how much I have been given.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

HAPPY WINTER SOLSTICE

There be some folks who can not abide Christmas.  This makes the perfect holiday for all of the pagans I know.
 As for little old me, I will buy into anything that has a party connected to it.
Truth be told, if there is a reason for the season, and it means folks will be in a happy mood, I am all for it.

Did I mention that Winter Solstice makes for a perfect reason to give gifts.  Forget that I am a devout Catholic and treat me like a greedy pagan, lusting after loot.....

Saturday, December 20, 2014

FAIR WARNING TO SANTA

What is the point of being super 'good' the whole year if you do not get the loot from Santa.

I am being fair.  I do not want a Bentley, or a cruise down the Nile, or a fancy dinner in Paris.

I want socks, underpants, batteries, cheap novels and even cheaper booze...

RON ADORES CHRISTMAS

Ron at annual Christmas Party
Ron LOVES Christmas.  Each year he plans a massive party.  Everyone who attends leaves with a present and some lucky folks ever get special door prizes.

The big event is Christmas Eve and Ron is busy setting the stage for his Christmas Blowout.  Every year has a theme.  Rumour has it that the theme this year is; 'Even The Gods Celebrate Christmas'.

Saturday, December 13, 2014

CHRISTMAS HAMPER

Stuffed with decadent goodies, from Peruvian pink peppercorn cashews to a full leg of cured Jamon Iberico and 12 bottles of Champagne, it’s no wonder that these Christmas hampers are some of the most expensive around. 
And while a £500 price tag may seem steep to spend on festive goodies, it will only buy you the least expensive product on this list.



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Thursday, December 11, 2014

WHAT CHRISTMAS MEANS TO ME


"I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round, as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys. " ~Charles Dickens

For my part, I always want to remember the great moments of Christmas, that the moments that mean the most in coming years will always be ones filled with hope and gladness. In years to come, I want to mark Christmas 2014, as the year I truly gained a new respect for the true meaning of Christmas and hold that close to my heart all of the days of the coming year.

"Happy, happy Christmas, that can win us back to the delusions of our childish days; that can recall to the old man the pleasures of his youth; that can transport the sailor and the traveller, thousands of miles away, back to his own fire-side and his quiet home! " ~Charles Dickens, The Pickwick Papers, 1836

Received an email yesterday that make me think of more to say on the subject of Christmas and how one must get into the mood.:
1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-
depressant.
2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.
3. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, 'My purpose is to
__________ today.'
4. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured IN
plants.
5. Drink green tea and plenty of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli ,
almonds & walnuts.
6. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
7. Don't waste your precious energy on energy vampires, issues of the past, negative
thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive
present moment.
8. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed
out charge card.
9. Life isn't fair, but it's still good!
10. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
11. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
12. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
13. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
14. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
15. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
16. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: 'In five years, will this matter?'
17. Forgive everyone for everything.
18. What other people think of you is none of your business.
19. GOD heals everything.
20. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
21. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.
Stay in touch!!!
22. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
23. Each night before you go to bed complete the following
statements: I am thankful for __________.
Today I accomplished _________.
24. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
25. Please send this to everyone you care about

Mind, the lovely lady who sent on this, is in the business of getting into your head and finding out what is wrong..........sounds to me as if she does it rather well, and the advice forwarded can apply all the year round.

"It is my hope that our paths will cross again soon. Till then it is my hope that your days with filled with peace, truth, and love, that you may continue your wonderful service to our community, the world we live in!!"

My dears, we shall meet again, the lovely lady and I..........need all of the help given to bring me back down to earth.


'Instead of being a time of unusual behavior, Christmas is perhaps the only time in the year when people can obey their natural impulses and express their true sentiments without feeling self-conscious and, perhaps, foolish. Christmas, in short, is about the only chance a man has to be himself. ' ~Francis C. Farley
 

My dears, Got Bless you, one and all!

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

WHAT A CHRISTMAS PARTY.....

Attended the first holiday party of the season last night.

My friend, Paul, belong to a older gay men's social group call the Prime Timers.  He secured me a ticket to their annual Christmas Party, held at the Sands Casino.  I had been to their Christmas Party in the past and thought it would be 'gay' to repeat the experience.

The room booked was nicely decorated and the table settings were clever.  I was early and had a long chat with a gent who was in charge of bookings.

The room filled up with the members of the club.  Met Mike again, he had sat at same table last year.  Seems he has a new 'partner'.  The next person to show was Ken.  I always called Ken, Gold Lame, as he would band on endlessly about a costume he wore once.  Imagine, claim to fame, stuffing one's self into a gold jock strap.

Ken and Mike had an excited conversation about a planned party that was going to feature the possibility of multiple sex partners.  You have to remember that the members of this club are quite aged.  Hard to believe that sex is so important...

It was an interesting evening.  Mind, the food was lovely and they even served wine.  Nice.  Who knew that there was a special vintage called "Happy Camper"...

I went all out for the party, dressed to the nines and even wore a Santa hat.  Most did not dress up, but am told that is how folks are in Reno.  There was one who had a very clever vest and hat on, but most made no special effort to dress up.

I do not know any of the club members , not really, and conversation was hard to come by.  They and I were into different things.

When dinner was over, I quietly let the room and returned home.  I rather think I will not be going to any more parties held by the club.

'RHYTHM OF THE RHYME'

Robert DeFrees Plays Santa

I have a list of folks I know all written in a book.
Every year at Christmas I go and take a look.
That is when I realize that these names are a part
Not of the book they are written in but of my heart
Each name stands for someone who has crossed my path sometime
And in the meeting they have become the "rhythm of the rhyme"
While it sounds fantastic for me to add this claim
I really believe I am composed of each remembered name
While you may not be aware of any special link
Just meeting you has shaped my life more than you can think
Once you have met somebody the years cannot erase
The memory of a pleasant word or friendly face
So never think of my Christmas card is just a mere routine
of names upon a list, forgotten in between
For when I send a Christmas card that is addressed to you
It is because you are on the list of folks I am indebted to
You are a part of the total of many folks I have met
You happen to be one of those I prefer not to forget
Whether I have known you for many years or few
In some way you have had a part in shaping things I do
Every Christmas I realize anew
The biggest gift that life can give is meeting folks like you.


My dears, the above newspaper clipping was old when it was sent to MOI in a Christmas Card many years ago. It meant so much to MOI that it became a marker in my diary and it is seen almost daily. Some times it is just moved from page to page but at other times MOI reads it again and thinks of all of the lovely folks who have been a part of his life.

Many of you are 'au fait' with MOI sending E-Cards. Not a holiday or special event passes without a little something being sent to the folks who are special. A small number of folks write back and tell that they NEVER open the E-Cards, they are afraid that it will have a 'virus' but that does not stop MOI from sending them. Many know that it is just my way of letting all know they are thought of. MOI receives many as well and loves each and every one received.

Last year this clipping was posted and wanted to make sure that all were reminded how dear all are held in heart.

Life goes by at such a fast clip and it is important that one takes the time to let the folks loved know that the feelings are strong and will stay with MOI the whole of life.

Monday, December 8, 2014

SANTA IS COMING

Robert plays Santa

I may not really be Father Christmas but it does not stop me from spreading Christmas Cheer.....
The year was 2008 and I was on a mission to save the world.  Actually, a wicked neighbourhood in Fresno, California.

Had received much help and support from many who laboured at City Hall.  Thought it would be clever idea to go and pass out treats to the employees.

Was gobsmacked at how many 'adults' wanted to meet Santa and have a picture with.

Friday, December 5, 2014

CHRISTMAS ELF


The Christmas Elf wants to know if you have been good.  I know I have been good.  I have been so good it hurts.  That should mean that my tree will have lots of presents under it...

Sunday, December 23, 2012

Christmas 2012


Back in 2008, the old geezer filmed this bit.  It got massive response.  Might well have been due to MOI being every so 'gay' at Christmas time.  Or the singing...

Now it is Christmas 2012.  While not so large, me spirit is still filled with the sounds of the season.

Back in Hawaii, and it seems ever so right to do this again.

Happy Christmas.  Best wishes to Alan, Paul, Jack, Scott, Pam, Glenda,Ron, James and Chandra, Clive, Harry, Tony, Laura.  Let it just be wonderful for all of the folks known, even if not named,

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

CHRISTMAS CARD LIST


Robert as Santa - Christmas 2007

I have a list of folks I know all written in a book.
Every year at Christmas I go and take a look.
That is when I realize that these names are a part
Not of the book they are written in but of my heart
Each name stands for someone who has crossed my path sometime
And in the meeting they have become the "rhythm of the rhyme"
While it sounds fantastic for me to add this claim
I really believe I am composed of each remembered name
While you may not be aware of any special link
Just meeting you has shaped my life more than you can think
Once you have met somebody the years cannot erase
The memory of a pleasant word or friendly face
So never think of my Christmas card is just a mere routine
of names upon a list, forgotten in between
For when I send a Christmas card that is addressed to you
It is because you are on the list of folks I am indebted to
You are a part of the total of many folks I have met
You happen to be one of those I prefer not to forget
Whether I have known you for many years or few
In some way you have had a part in shaping things I do
Every Christmas I realize anew
The biggest gift that life can give is meeting folks like you.

My dears, the above newspaper clipping was old when it was sent to MOI in a Christmas Card many years ago. It meant so much to MOI that it became a marker in my diary and it is seen almost daily. Some times it is just moved from page to page but at other times MOI reads it again and thinks of all of the lovely folks who have been a part of his life.

Many Christmas's have been enjoyed in the 60 odd years of life.  One of most remembered is last one spent with John, happy we were, even if we knew he would not be round for the next one.  There is a memorable one in Stockholm, and a few special ones in London.  Am very fond of the one spent in Hilo.  Then there is the one in Marysville, the one James and Chandra came into life.  Christmas makes MOI think back on the lovely times had with Paul.

This year, Ron is holding his annual Christmas Eve Party.  Ron ADORES Christmas, and loves to play Santa to all the folks known to.  May well be a Christmas to remember...

Many of you are 'au fait' with MOI sending E-Cards. Not a holiday or special event passes without a little something being sent to the folks who are special. A small number of folks write back and tell that they NEVER open the E-Cards, they are afraid that it will have a 'virus' but that does not stop MOI from sending them. Many know that it is just my way of letting all know they are thought of. MOI receives many as well and loves each and every one received.

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

WHITE TRASH CHRISTMAS


Special tribute to a dear mate who is spending Christmas in a caravan park............

Friday, December 16, 2011

ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS



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A CHRISTMAS STORY 2009

Rhoads Family - Colleen Cummings A-P

Whilst Christmas 2008 is not looked back on with undiluted pleasure, Christmas 2009 is a bright Christmas moment long remembered fondly.

Am re-printing the story of that Christmas, as it appeared in local paper on Christmas morning.  The Rhoads family have gone on to greater things.  James, the father was taught the trade of 'property management' by the old geezer and has gone on to help owners with troubled properties get turned round.  Last checked the family was doing well.

Christmas miracle for family in Linda

Nearly a year ago, James Rhoads started a business of reselling items from storage units where renters had fallen behind on payments.
People sometimes pleaded with him for items they'd left behind; often, other than for personal items, they were out of luck.
But after the contents of his own storage unit was sold, and his family of six had to sleep at friends' houses or sometimes a 1996 Plymouth Voyager, he's gotten a new perspective.
"Everybody out there, they aren't really that bad of people," said Rhoads, 34, adding he hasn't always felt that way. "There are bad seeds out there, but the majority of them are good."
The reason the out-of-work cement mason has a better outlook these days has to do with what's happened to his family in the last two weeks — going from a Christmas with little hope to what his wife Chandra Rhoads calls the best one she's ever had.
In a modest Linda apartment, the family has furniture, bedding, food and $500 worth of Christmas gifts. All of it donated, including the unit where they live.
The Rhoads' journey started as the economy tanked in the last few years. James Rhoads went from making $4,200 a month and planning to buy a home for his wife and their four children to being out of work so long he can't even take advantage of the unemployment benefit extensions recently approved.
Short of money, the family left a rented home in Linda a few months ago where the electricity had been shut off and a ceiling had collapsed, and headed for Oregon, where they thought a new home awaited them.
When that fell through a month ago, the couple and their four children — Jamie Rhoads, 12; Alex Gomes, 9; Haley Rhoads, 5; and Jimmy Rhoads III, 3 — piled into the van and drove back to Yuba County for what they believed would be a temporary stay at a friend's home.
It was temporary. But for two weeks, as James said he searched for an apartment he could move his family into, he began to fear living in the van would be more permanent.
Because the family had only Aid to Families with Dependent Children for income, they couldn't afford the normal rental requirements for an apartment. And other apartment managers wouldn't take in a family that big for relatively small quarters.
When he approached the managers at Linda Villa Apartments in Linda earlier this month, James Rhoads said he'd decided honesty was the best policy.
"I was discouraged," he said. "So I just put my story out there."
Rob DeFrees, who works with Linda Villa's managers, said Rhoads' story struck a chord.
"I looked him in the eye and thought, 'If ever there was a situation where I should trust my gut, this is the time,'" DeFrees said. He agreed to let the family rent an apartment on a voucher for homeless families.
But after losing the storage unit's contents, the Rhoads had little which with to fill the apartment.
"As far as Christmas, we were kind of thinking we weren't going to have one," said Chandra, 31.
DeFrees wrote a story about the family on his blog, and published it Dec. 13. Doing so proved to be a snowball thrown down the side of a mountain, the result being an avalanche of generosity.
People began sending DeFrees e-mail messages: What can I do?
"I wanted to believe if people had the opportunity to help on a personal level, they would," DeFrees said. "I'm just overwhelmed at it all."
One person who responded was a woman named Bonnie, who thought at least she could bring over blankets and other bedding. Then she saw how little the family had.
She made phone calls, sent e-mails. More offers of help came in. Bonnie, who declined to allow her last name to be published, said she thinks being able to do something small for someone resonated with people.
Many of her fellow parishioners at St. Andrew Presbyterian Church helped, as did the Yuba County Sheriff's Department, Supervisor Andy Vasquez and a furniture store.
Those who contributed had two things in common: They wanted to help, and they didn't want credit.
James Rhoads beamed earlier this week as Alex and Haley zipped around the apartment complex's parking lot on donated bikes.
"I like my beds, and I like my new bike," Alex said, pedaling just behind his parents as they walked. Alex mentioned his brother's birthday was Christmas Eve.
"Then we get a lot of treats," he said, to laughter from James and Chandra.
"I used to think less of people who were bad off," Rhoads said. "Now I think, I've been there."
In exchange for a break on rent, Rhoads has been hired as a maintenance man at the complex, and other part-time jobs will start soon. He's hoping to stay long enough to earn money toward a more permanent place.
The family is also planning its own giving back, starting by taking extra sleeping bags and blankets to the homeless.
When she talks about what's happened, Chandra Rhoads stops in the middle of her sentence.
"It's going to be awesome," she said of today's celebration, her eyes welling with tears.


It may be a small blog, but this old geezer reaches out to many, many kind folks with hearts as big as Texas.  When you ask if you can make a difference, just remember the lesson of this story.  One person has the power to change lives, a small change that leads to bigger changes.

Christmas, it is all about the giving and not the getting......

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

CHRISTMAS TREE IN ROME


My friend in Rome sent this snap.  They were putting up the Christmas Tree in Rome.  Lovely.

One realizes that all over the world, people are joining in the celebration, a celebration of good cheer and being kind to one another.  This makes the old geezer realize just how connected we, the entire world are.  More's the pity we do not feel this spirit the whole of the year....

Monday, December 5, 2011

SPREADING CHRISTMAS CHEER

Rather think that one of best times had at Christmas was dressing up and visiting City Hall and thanking all of the public employees for their service.  What a thrill it was ti see so many adults line up to have picture taken with SANTA.  Mind, it helped that I had a samrt costume on and with the added weight looked very much like SANTA.

Christmas is all about the giving, not the getting.  Truth be told the experience left me with memories that will last a life time.

When is the last time you played SANTA???